Day 13

GOOD NEWS! lol the books arrived yesterday and I have started to read them!


Subtitled: News News News

So the books on dating and attracting women arrived, boy are they different from what I have learned about long term relationships, but they even state in them "this is how you would act to attract some one not how you would act in a long term relationship you want to last"

After reading the first two chapters I donned my mirror with note cards lol, well two any way

The first one reads:  "You are an attractive man worth having!"

The Second one lists their 10 Rules for dating in the beginning:

1. Love your life! (my Translation) single or not you should love the life you live, and fill it with activities that you enjoy, but make sure you are "unplugged" the majority of the time.  They suggest join a gym, take up fishing, boating, biking, nature walks, any activity that is out of the house and doesn't require being"plugged in"
2. Own your attitude, what ever your attitude may be... OWN IT! You have complete control over how you feel, no matter your place in life so accept it!
3. Look and feel your best (pretty self explanitory)
4. Act fast, never hesitate: they suggest creating a 3 second rule, 3 seconds after she first notices you, you should be engaged in conversation, hesitation gives her time to pre-judge you and gives you time to fill your head with doubts
5. Keep an open mind: always be ready and available to new situations no matter where you are!
6. Don't trade your status for a woman's approval:  this rule is about establishing dominance with out being a jerk about it, sticking up for yourself basically
7. Don't be nice, don't be a jerk, always be interesting:  this rule is about walking that fine line between the two (nice and jerk) to being assertive and confidant! but keeping things interesting, by being funny, spontaneous, adventurous, etc.
8. Focus on her not on yourself, pay attention to body language as well as keep the conversation on her most of the time.
9. It's always your fault!  lol (wow to this rule) 
10. NEVER GIVE UP!

So in the nature of being the best me I can be I went out bought some new digs, as well as I have started a new diet.  I have started to take the Activia challenge as well as the Special-K challenge.  (here's crossing my fingers to stick to it) I also will start taking walks after lunches untill I find out how much it costs to join the local gym.

TTFN

-365daysnowomen